Gay? Gay Enough?

Guys, I'm dateless. Seriously y'all whats going on? I've been wondering this for a while now, kind of mulling over this post in my head. How do you show/display that your gay with out going too far? Like what is it that separates you from the straight guys. I mean personally I don't think I'm that straight looking but I feel that girls take my comments the wrong way. Its kind of funny but then its like where are the guys to hit on. There needs to be a line though, I don't need to be a walking, talking pride flag. 


So how do you do it? Is it a way of dressing? is it how you talk or walk? 





Can we just talk about this video for a second? Its really, really cute. 

3 comments: (+add yours?)

JP said...

I know what you mean, in he end though it's a lot about networking and getting your name out there in your community. Like at school, it's not common knowledge that I'm gay but people know through my close friends telling them or something similar. Also, going to GSA and Pride events is a great way to meet others and get your name and face out there.

Chin up my friend, patience pays off.

-JP

Lunario said...

As far as the physical aspects are concerned, you should dress the way you enjoy to dress, but never dress in a "gay" way if you only do it to make clear you're gay. Personally I like wearing purple skinny jeans, maybe that's "gay" to a lot of people. I don't really think about it too much.

What I also wonder about is why I do not manage to get a boyfriend. Probably it's really just my reservedness when it comes to getting close to other people. It's easy for me to make friends, but it's hard for me to make really good, close friends.

Pierre said...

@ JP - Exactly, thought talking to people about it after only knowing them after three months is a bit challenging.

@ Lunario - Your last paragraph capture all my emotions.